After attending many women conferences, I have realized that women are more troubled than men when a relationship they value ends. As such, one of the questions my wife and I have always had a hard time answering is, “When a guy breaks up with you will he come back?”
Though the question under discussion troubles many, it is easy to have the answer. A few signs will help you know it. Does he call or texts you often to inquire how you are doing? Does he call you pet name(s)?
He claims to miss you and helps you financially or even visits you at times?
Pretty girl, grab some popcorns and relax. In a few seconds, I will tell you what will happen next.
When A Guy Breaks Up With You Will He Come Back If He Makes Calls
If a guy has no one else he is seeing or is interested in, he will most likely start sending you texts in the morning, late-night hours, and after every few hours. He will call you almost every day, “just to know how you are doing.”
Why does this happen?
He feels lonely because of the breakup. And, he misses you and feels something is missing in his life. He wants to fill the gap in his heart. Thus, he will call even when you don’t expect him to call. And, you are here sending every one a text asking, “If a guy breaks up with you will he come back?”
Well, if you still doubt it, here’s a way to judge his intentions. Never initiate calls and texts. Let him be the one to do it even if it is for a week or fortnight. If he never questions why you are not calling him or complains that he is the one who always calls, then he is coming back. At least, men are quick to judge from what they see.
They can tell if there are signs she loves you but is scared to say or she is just not interested. From what they see, they can decide the next move.
You see, communication is one way of connecting hearts that are away from each other. With time, after those daily calls, you will also begin to think about him. If he doesn’t call, you might as well end up feeling like something is not right.
That’s what your guy wants to create in you so that you can eventually call for a comeback!
Helps You in Your Home Tasks
Hey! So he enjoys your company a lot and even proves it by helping you in the kitchen? Well, there is no need calling friends to ask, “When a guy breaks up with you will he come back?” Why? It is simple. Just enjoy his company but don’t prove it. I mean, don’t make it so obvious that you are really enjoying it.
You can even ask him to sit so that you do all the duties. But deep inside, you know, he is coming back. The actions can tell it all.
When A Guy Breaks Up With You Will He Come Back If He Misses You
Hmm…so he sends you texts stating that he misses you? In other words, he is saying he wants to spend time with you, hang around, or have a date with you. Right?
Well, who would want to hang around with you all the time if he is not interested in having you back in his life? Why would he want to walk with you around your home, his home, or other public places if he really doesn’t need you back in his life?
If he misses you, it means he feels the gap and wants to end it.
He feels lonely and wants to have you keep him company. It is that simple. He regrets that it ended and wants you back.
Call You Pets Names
Well…well…so he makes you calls and texts you and calls you by the pet names he used when you said “Yes” on your first date? No need to spend sleepless nights asking yourself questions such as, “When a guy breaks up with you will he come back?”
He can only call you such pretty names because you still have a place in his heart. Names such as “babe,” “babie,” “honey,” and “sweetheart” can only be instilled in him by his love and feelings for you. So, relax, your man is coming back. Soon!
Why? He calls you such names because that is what he feels you are to him. Why then should you be troubled about him claiming that it is over?
Helps You Financially
Get it from me; no man will help you financially if he doesn’t love or doesn’t care about you. Regardless of the mistake(s) that you did that probably pushed him away if he boosts you financially, it is a sure sign that he is coming back.
Who would invest in you financially if he doesn’t love you? Simple, no one!
So, make use of this time to correct the mistakes you made. Be careful of your thoughts, too. Your guys simply love you, and he is showing it through his support. But he is giving you space to work on yourself. If you can successfully adjust once and for all, you will get him back.
If he gives you money after you have promised to refund, be honest, refund when it is time. You will be winning your guy back through honesty. In fact, a change of character works wonders even in marriage.
To be precise, if you are wondering how to get your husband back, start by being honest with him in all matters.
Parting Shot
So, when a guy breaks up with you will he come back? It is good to wait a little longer and see if he shows any of the above signs.
However, don’t go showing him that you are desperate for him. Some men might end up taking advantage of you if you show them that you are desperate for love.